If you don’t do your job, you won’t let yourself enjoy anything ever again, no matter how much money you have saved away.
Read moreColumn: There is a Gift that Never Ends (2/2/2020)
When we got gifts as kids, we thought we could do whatever we wanted to with them. It wasn’t until later on that we learned that gifts don’t come without strings attached.
Read moreColumn: Visiting the National Infantry Museum (1/26/2020)
There is a hidden gem in Columbus, Georgia, at Fort Benning. It is a museum called the National Infantry Museum, and it looks like it.
Read moreColumn: Retirement is About Funding and Timing (1/19/2020)
When we talk about retirement, there are two parts of that conversation. One is the plan, how it is going to be funded, and the second is about timing. If we can answer those two questions, retirement should be a walk in the park.
Read moreColumn: The Evil Witch Who Stole Happiness (1/12/2020)
There once was a young prince who had everything his heart could desire, but he wasn’t happy. And then one day an evil witch came into the castle and, through her dark magic, took it all away and left him with nothing.
Read moreDIY: Installing Speakers on my Motorcycle (YouTube)
I got a GoPro for Christmas, so I’ll upload videos here and there of DIY projects or camping trips, and share them here. Thanks for putting up with me!
Read moreColumn: The Roaring Twenties, On Perfect Imperfection (1/5/2020)
Louis Armstrong is on stage with his band—the Creole Jazz Band out of New Orleans—and he’s scatting into the microphone, trumpet in his left hand and a cocktail in his right, living his dream. Only tonight he’s not in New Orleans; on the front row is Al Capone.
Read moreColumn: Christmas is Good News, Not Advice (12/29/2019)
New Years’ is overrun with gurus and tips and hacks—advice is everywhere. We are only a set of resolutions away from becoming the person we’ve always wanted to be.
Read moreColumn: Christmas Story, Proof of Our Amnesia (12/22/2019)
Typically, fairy tales and legends begin in the middle of the story, starting with, “Once upon a time….” The Christmas story isn’t that way.
Read moreColumn: Joining the Rotary Club (12/15/2019)
November 6, 2019 I joined The Rotary Club of Valdosta.
Read moreColumn: What is Food without Flowers? (12/8/2019)
“You make a living by what you get; you make a life by what you give.” This quote is typically attributed to Winston Churchill, but sources say it became popular in a 2005 Lockheed Martin TV commercial.
Read moreColumn: On the Miracle of Human Connection (12/1/2019)
Meg Ryan, in the movie ”You’ve Got Mail”, finds herself hoping for a miracle. She’s in the wrong checkout line, the cash-only line, and she has no cash. And the clerk isn’t budging.
Read moreColumn: On Thanksgiving Day: Day of Group Humility (11/24/2019)
Pringles just released a limited-edition, seasonal tube of chips. It’s actually an entire Thanksgiving meal-replacement, with chips flavored as turkey, chicken, duck, and even cranberry sauce and stuffing, and—just imagine!—pumpkin pie, so you can combine flavors to your heart’s content.
Read moreColumn: Don't Let Vegas on Wall Street (11/17/2019)
Column: Of Cost in the Absence of Value (11/10/2019)
As long as it does the job well, I don’t care who manufactures the filing cabinet in my office. I bought it to hold documents, not organize them or write them for me. It’s not a service (someone doing work for you), it’s a commodity (a tool to do the work yourself).
Read moreColumn: Overthinking the What-Ifs of Life (11/3/2019)
There are no guarantees in life, but there are some things we can be pretty sure of: the sun will rise tomorrow, Trump is going to tweet, Valdosta is going to play football. But something could happen. The sun could fall out of the sky, Trump could get a thumb cramp, Valdosta could take up badminton.
Read moreColumn: The Meaning of Life, Part 3 (10/27/2019)
Two weeks ago we muscled past the impulse to run out of the room at the sound of the words “meaning of life”, and last week we looked at the attitude required to live a meaningful life—namely, gratitude. This week we will see the action of the meaning of life, the way meaning and purpose changes our lives.
Read moreColumn: The Meaning of Life, Part 2 (10/20/2019)
Last week we looked at the reason for this pursuit. To summarize, the meaning of life provides us with the answer to the question of why—why work, why love, why life—and it’s this answer that gives our life meaningful purpose.
Read moreColumn: The Meaning of Life, Part 1 (10/13/2019)
If you were to ask three hundred of the wisest people in history about the meaning of life, you’d think they would draw a crowd, but the only way to clear a room faster is by announcing the presence of a life insurance salesman.
Read moreColumn: Risk and Reward (10/6/2019)
Getting caught in the rain on a motorcycle is not a huge problem, but if you don’t have a windshield or a visor, your face is going to be in a world of hurt.
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